Success Is Relative

Your dreams define your perspective of success. A dream streamlined by realistic parameters and shaped by your value system becomes an achievable goal. And goals can be as diverse as material success, career growth, relationships, pursuing a cherished interest or vocation, peaceful existence, gaining knowledge, etc.

So, first you need a goal, and then a way of measuring your progress towards that goal. And then some personal yardstick of which measurement would count as success and which would count as failure.

My personal notion is that, whatever the vocation or calling, a successful person is one who lights up people’s eyes and brings a smile on their faces when he walks into a room, regardless of their backgrounds, status or relationship with him. And this must be so at workplace, home and every other walk of life.

You cannot light up people’s eyes if you are not traversing your own journey of life in the most meaningful and fulfilling manner that you can.

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'Chak De' Hockey!

Hockey players, who added a new feather to India's crown by winning the Asian Champions Trophy in China, refused to accept the "too little" prize money - Rs 25,000. During their felicitation in Delhi, the players refused the prize money offered by Hockey India claiming that the incentive is "too little to fetch even a decent playing kit". The players led by Captain Rajpal Singh turned down the prize money which created a new controversy in the country.

Source: news.oneindia.in, Setember 14, 2010

The year was 2007. Cheerleaders danced to the beats of a Bollywood song as India was about to script a nail-biting finish against Pakistan in the cricket T20 World Cup final. With tricolor flags in hand, almost every Indian spectator was gripped with the spirit of patriotism. And all this while, little did cricket fans realize that intensity was coming from the song ‘Chak De India’, filmed on Hockey, a sport very different in its administration, handling and following.

Hockey is the national sport of India. It is a sport that made the nation proud, having the most successful hockey team in Olympic history with 8 gold, 1 silver, and 2 bronze medals. It is also a sport that went on to witness one of its most unfortunate days when India failed to make the cut at the 2008 Olympics for the first time in 80 years. It is a sport that shook the collective conscience of an entire country as one controversy after another surrounded its administrators. And it is also a sport whose achievers are today languishing in poverty.

There are many reasons for the failure of Indian Hockey on International stage for the past few years. There are few sponsors who want to invest in hockey. Sub-standard facilities for the players, bad conditions of fields, and poor infra-structure are other features. Will this sport be reduced to just a forgotten game?

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If You Can Dream It, You Can Do It!

Have you ever thought of why you dream of something? It is most probably because at some point of time you actually thought you could do it.

What do you call a dog with no legs? Doesn’t matter what you call him, he is not going to come. Similarly, dreams without action will never actualise.

Here’s my two cents. It is your life, take stock. Visualise your dream, and put it down as a realistic goal in black and white. Put down also what it takes to reach there. I mean, in terms of resources, talent, time and effort. Now, take a stock of your personal inventory. Note the gap between what you need and what you’ve got. Put down how you can bridge that gap. Lastly, make a road-map, and act on it.

Sure, there will be roadblocks in the path to success. But the dauntless find alternate routes!

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