Monday, October 17, 2011

The Pigeon And The Statue

“Accept that some days you are the pigeon and some days the statue.”

Very funny, great cliché, but a very sad take on life. Because it is funny, it is not only easy to remember, but easy to implement as well, which is exactly why something is not quite right.

You may have been at the end of some serious crap in life. And you might blame all the people who messed up your life. You cant just sit back and say, “I was crapped upon, now, at every opportunity I will crap on someone!”

Get out of the victim mentality! It is not easy to forgive ….yet work towards LETTING GO! Forgive yourself, too, for ‘crapping’ on others till now! Only then will you start loving yourself and be able to focus on your goals!  No matter what situation or circumstance you are in today, you don't have to accept the way things are in your life.

You don’t have to be a statue or a pigeon!


© Sujata Khanna. All rights reserved.

Monday, October 3, 2011

Cult Suicides

An evangelical pastor and 60 worshippers sparked fears of a mass suicide pact by holing themselves up in a Havana church. The group have spent more than three weeks locked in the 'Fountain of Life' Pentecostal Church, prompting conspiracy theories about their aims. But now the pastor's son has insisted they are conducting a regular spiritual retreat and aim to 'liberate Cuba from sins'.
Source: www.dailymail.co.uk, September 15, 2011

MAJOR MASS CULT SUICIDES
  • Peoples Temple: On November 18, 1978, 918 Americans died in Peoples Temple-related incidents, including 909 members of the Temple, led by Jim Jones, in Jonestown, Guyana. The dead included 303 children. A tape of the Temple's final meeting in a Jonestown pavilion contains repeated discussions of the group committing "revolutionary suicide," including reference to people taking the poison and the vats to be used.
  • Solar Temple: From 1994 to 1997, the Order of the Solar Temple's members began a series of mass suicides, which led to roughly 74 deaths. Farewell letters were left by members, stating that they believed their deaths would be an escape from the "hypocrisies and oppression of this world." Added to this they felt they were moving on to Sirius. (Sirius is the brightest star in the night sky). Records seized by the Quebec police showed that some members had personally donated over $1 million to the cult's leader, Joseph Di Mambro.
  • Heaven's Gate: An American UFO religion based in San Diego, California, founded and led by Marshall Applewhite, caused the death en masse of 39 of its followers on March 26, 1997, in Rancho Santa Fe, California. These people believed, according to the teachings of their cult, that through their suicides they were "exiting their human vessels" so that their souls could go on a journey aboard a spaceship they believed to be following comet Hale-Bopp.
Source: en.wikipedia.org

Priest of unreason, and charlatan King!
"Hail to the saviour!" believers sing…

Behind every cult there is a charismatic leader who demands total faith and obedience. He commands a faithful following, believing in a future heavenly reward and often an impending, earthly doom. The most dangerous cults abuse the faith of their followers to such an extreme that it endangers all of their lives. The leaders of these groups take advantage of group psychology to generate a fantasised sense of 'us' versus a very hostile 'them' outside. Four basic behaviours found in extreme form in destructive cults: compliance with the group, dependence on a leader, devaluing the outsider, and avoiding dissent.

Cult members can come from widely disparate socio-economic backgrounds and include rich as well as poor who are willing to make enormous personal sacrifices for reaching a faith based goal promised by the charismatic leader. The cult influence is like addiction to a drug . Typical behaviour for both includes draining bank accounts, neglecting children, destroying relations with family and losing interest in anything except the drug or cult.

Today, there is an alarming rise in young people attracted to cults. The psychological effects on members, particularly adolescents, lead them to develop opinions and modes of behaviour diametrically different from their families of origin, causing familial tensions. Often, psychiatrists need to be consulted with the view to understand, treat and correct what is seen as behavioural aberration by the families.

Most democratic governments defend religious freedom. However, there has to be some regulatory mechanism to monitor cults, considering their effects on young people and their families, and some of the reactions they have caused in society.

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